Why is it that some people manage to accomplish everything they set out to do, while others do not? This question has been bothering many people for a long time.
Now I will tell you what signs can determine that in front of you – a loser. Let’s go!
1. Losers do not believe in themselves.
One of the main signs of a loser – lack of confidence in themselves and their strength.
They constantly complain about life, that conditions don’t allow them to become rich, the government, etc. Many people perceive them as “whiners.”
Successful people, on the other hand, go after their goal, disregarding external circumstances.
2. Unsuccessful people try to avoid making mistakes.
There is no success without mistakes.
Successful people are not afraid of making mistakes; they know that they are valuable experience which helps them to avoid making even bigger mistakes in the future.
Losers direct all their efforts to avoid mistakes; if they do occur, they deny the fact until the very last moment.
3. Losers believe that nothing depends on them.
If you “put” in his head the idea that nothing depends on you, you can calmly live without straining and not trying to change anything, you agree?
This position, characteristic of losers, is too comfortable. But they do not understand one thing: with such principles man becomes a hostage of other people’s decisions. In fact, it all depends on yourself and your desire to change things.
4. Losers judge themselves by what other people say
The opinion of society is very fickle, so to adjust to it without damage to his own psyche is unreal.
Losers, however, listen to the opinion of others and on the basis of it form their own characteristics. All words said to them losers take for the absolute truth.
5. Losers rarely step out of their comfort zone.
Such people rarely step out of their comfort zone – most of the time it is for something very necessary.
But if you want to get rich or succeed at something, you have to get used to a kind of uncertainty and discomfort. This is one of the stages of personal growth.
Outside the comfort zone is the risk zone. Reasonable stepping outside the comfort zone into the risk zone is a necessary condition for personal development.
Losers are not born – a person creates himself or herself. Remember: your life is in your hands. Do not be afraid to act, take responsibility, and good luck will smile on you. Dare!